What does Neela have to do?

Well, I've been playing it over in my head, like how is she going to finally convince Ray that she's for real and does want him...

Well, I know she needs to be honest about how she feels, that the whole gates thing was nothing, that she went through alot when michael died. Michael's death really put a spin on things. She even admitted to Ray, in that wedding scene, "I couldnt separate you from Michael", "I couldn't be with you without feeling guilty"..I hated how that scene got interupted!

She was FINALLY being honest with how she really felt, ooh man, I got soo ticked off at hope but she even admitted, she felt guilty for falling for another guy while being with michael..Even in that michael goodbye video, Michael said he wanted her to move on with her life, get married etc. If that's what the real problem is, that she's felt guilty this entire time for falling in love with someone else, did she really have it in her head that if she fell for Ray, that'd she be betraying Michael in some way or that if she acted on her feelings for ray, that'd also be betrayal? Well I say, Michael wanted her to move on, her falling for ray while she was with michael wasnt something she was expecting but it happened and you know, I do feel Michael wasn't her one, Ray is, that Neela and Michael thing in my opinion felt so forced to me, Ray and Neela developed for awhile before those feelings started.....I can understand guilt, It wasnt Neela's fault for falling in love, Michael seemed like a very forgiving person, he would of understood but to point out the obvious, Michael is gone, he's not coming back, She now has a real chance to finally let her give in to her feelings for Ray, she's scared to probably, love can be scary but you know what....All she has to do is talk to him, explain things and just admit she loves ray, if ray heard her say this, then it'd all be uphill from there...She's never said it, Ray has...

What do you think that she has to do exactly to convince Ray?

Tell him you love him NEELA!

You bring up a very good question and one that deserves pondering.

Though I agree that Neela does need to FINALLY tell Ray that she fell in love with him while she was with Michael and how she struggled with the guilt of that, she also needs to tell him that despite being affraid to open her heart again to someone and trying to move on after Ray left the first time, after seeing him again she has realized that she can't pretend anymore. She loves him and it doesn't matter how many men she goes out with, they will never compare to Ray and how she feels when she is with him.

Neela needs to finally realize that she needs to make a major change in her life both professionally and personally. County/Chicago gave her a professional foundation but it is time she spreads her wings and moves to a new city/hospital. Personally we all know she has been in a major rut and has allowed her fear and guilt keep her from having the courage to truly follow her heart. I feel that when Ray leaves tomorrow night he will unknowingly take Neela's heart with him. Hopefully sooner rather than later, Neela will realize that and go to Ray not to ask for her heart back but rather to ask Ray for his and that she can live/work anywhere but he is not just anywhere and that if he still loves her; she would move to Baton Rouge in heart beat so they could finally be together.

GO REELA!
Sem1973

I agree with you both....but I'm not in the mood for writing something long now...so here's my input:

Get off your ass Neela and tell Ray how you feel about him!!

Thats all

I agree with you both....but I'm not in the mood for writing something long now...so here's my input:

Get off your ass Neela and tell Ray how you feel about him!!

Hey Sammy; that pretty much says it all!! May I add; "HEY BRENNER KEEP YOUR SLIMEY HANDS OFF NEELA!!"

GO REELA!
Sem1973